Most would say that Australians are a pretty relaxed bunch. We like our sunshine and our no-hassle way of life but there are a few things we hold sacred. The great Australian barbeque is one of those sacred past times.

For many Australians, attending a backyard barbeque (BBQ) or that in a camp ground is second nature but some of our unfortunate brothers and sisters may not have had the opportunity. International visitors may also need a helping hand navigating the social etiquette of an Australian barbeque.

Some BBQ Do’s

BYOB or BYOG

It’s customary in Australian culture to “BYOB”  (Bring Your Own Beer) or “BYOG” (Bring Your Own Grog) when invited to a barbeque. When everyone brings their own beverages, there is always sure to be enough to go around. And it is also considered polite to leave any unconsumed beers in the fridge for the host after the barbeque is over.

Compliments to the Chef

Although this is not exclusive to Australian barbeque culture, thanking the cook for their efforts in preparing your meal is always a good idea. NOTE: Nine times out of ten it is generally the “Sheila” (aka lady of the house that does all the preparing and the “Bloke” just cooks it). Now if you have had better “Snags” (sausages) on the barbie elsewhere, you must keep it to yourself and find something nice to say anyway.

Bring a Plate

Quite often when you’re invited to a barbeque, the host will ask you to “bring a plate”. This usually refers to a salad or accompaniment to the barbeque but it can also include dessert or pre-dinner snacks such as a platter. Bringing a Pavlova or a potato salad is considered good form – don’t just bring an empty plate as you were asked to “bring a plate”.

BBQ Don’ts

Don’t Touch an Australian’s Barbeque without Being Asked to

If you have been invited to a mate’s house to partake in their barbeque, whatever you do, don’t start telling them how they should be cooking the food. Each Australian likes to cook their barbeque their own way and they will often believe it is the “best way”. If you start flipping burgers or messing around with the sausages or grilled onions without being asked to, you won’t be invited back.

Very Informal Attire

You don’t need to dress up for a BBQ. It’s the one social event in Australia where you are expected to wear thongs and shorts. For women, any informal summer dress or comfortable outfit is considered appropriate. Barbeques are about relaxing with friends so shirts, ties and fancy hairdos are left at the door.

Phones Down

While it may be tempting to bust out your phone and check out the news feed during lulls in the conversation, it’s considered bad form. Barbeques are social occasions where conversation, storytelling and general catch up on gossip are encouraged. Having your face buried in your device will make you the least social person there, so put it on silent and leave it in your pocket or bag.

Why don’t you try something a bit different at your next BBQ

Spend less time cooking and more time relaxing at your next barbecue. From a whole fish stuffed with lemon, lots of barbecued things on sticks and summer-ready grilled prawns, these are the recipes you need for your summer entertaining.  38 quick and easy recipes you can create this summer.